Every man deserves to be with the woman he wants and not just with whats been left to him by the lucky ones. First of all, if you're going to meet a woman, you have to know how to start a conversation with her. This is basic. There's just no way around it. You must engage her in some manner, and the easiest, and most obvious, way is to talk to her.

But this is not easy for many men. We all have been in the classical situation where you see a really beautiful woman that you want to meet, and then suddenly your brain goes on vacation and you simply can not think of a single thing to say.

And then, before you know it, the moment has passed, the opportunity is gone, and the woman you wanted to meet is now gone, and you may never see her again.

Sometimes you may be able to think of something to say to her, but the conversation quickly fizzles out and the girl moves on, leaving you feeling like a complete loser.

It is an unavoidable fact that being able to quickly engage a woman in a conversation dramatically increases your ability to get her on a date. This is because by having a conversation you are creating rapport and comfort with her, which are the necessary building blocks of human relationships. In short without rapport and comfort, there is no way you can get a girl to give you a serious commitment to see you again.

The great difficulties many men have with talking to women comes from the fact that they simply don't know what to say to a woman to get a conversation started with them.

There exists an interesting concept called the "Opener." This is a line you can use to start a conversation with a woman and that has the ability to lead into a larger conversation that with lead to more interaction with her. It's something like a catalyst for every interaction you'll have with a girl.

It is always recommend that you have 3 openers memorized and ready to go, so that once one runs its course, you have two more ready to go to carry on that conversation.

A good Opener it is always something that can be relatively open-ended, and can be transformed into different conversations.

Just find something the woman says to latch onto and use that to relate to her. Start talking about that one topic until the conversation starts to flow. And if one conversation runs its course, you can stack another opener to start a new conversation. For instance, a good follow-up to this opener is: "So, do you like kids?"

After she answers, ask her why is it she feels that way. Then talk about your views on kids. Eventually, the conversation will be flowing, and before you know it, it's time to ask for her number and set up a date.

It is vitally important you develop this skill, otherwise you will have an extremely hard time meeting women and getting them to go out with you.