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Index » Self Help » Inspiration
 

Bonus Rounds and Treasures

 
Author: Cory L. Kemp

Ken Jennings, a software engineer from Salt Lake City, Utah, best known as Jeopardy's winningest contestant ever, became known this week for apparently biting the hand that has fed him very, very well. Personal comments on his website this past Monday criticized both the show's format and its long-time host, Alex Trebek. About the show itself: "You're the Dorian Gray of syndication. You seem to think 'change' means replacing a blue polyethylene backdrop with a slightly different shade of blue polyethylene backdrop every presidential election or so." About Mr. Trebek: "I know, I know, the old folks love him" After the media reacted negatively to his comments, calling him ungrateful, among other things, Jennings clarified his comments, saying he meant them as a "humor piece." Mr. Jennings stated that, "For the record, I've loved Jeopardy since I was a kid, as anyone who talks to me for more than five minutes knows. Making goofy jokes about TV shows isn't bashing. I believe it's the whole reason Al Gore invented the internet."

It seems to be a good thing Mr. Jennings amassed a solid nest egg from his time spent on that retro-fitted, old-fashioned program. His sense of humor may cost him more than he has bargained for.

In another way, the story of Colonel Bruce Hollywood is also about accumulated wealth and personal perspective. Earlier this year, Col. Hollywood awoke to crushing chest pain. As the highlights of his life flashed before him, he remembered his adoptive mother, who had already passed on, urging him to find his Japanese mother. And so, with some help from Ryoso Kato, the Japanese Ambassador to the United States, he did. USAToday.com reported that, "According to Hollywood and his mother, Nobue Ouchi, who was interviewed through an interpreter, their story is about a dream fulfilled and a rich life made richer."

Ms. Ouchi always knew she would see her son again. They met when Hollywood went to Japan in April, and she is visiting him this week. Col. Hollywood had enjoyed what he called a "charmed life." He was raised in a loving family, married and raised two children of his own, and thoroughly enjoyed his career. He reflected that, "At that moment when I looked back at my life, I really thought that in the game of life, I won. This whole new world opened up to me, and it's like I get to play a bonus round." His mother's dream came true, and his heart grew fuller.

Considering the stories of these two men, I am more sure than ever that money and publicity do not do anything more than highlight who we already are. I do not know Ken Jennings or Bruce Hollywood personally. But I do know who I would want to invite to my home for dinner and conversation.

My understanding of Jesus' reflections concerning treasures is also a little clearer now. "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal; but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also (Matthew 6:19-21)."

My Aunt Joanne used to quote this scripture during a key transition point in her life. Facing the reality that her aging parents would need additional care, she and my Uncle Bert decided to sell their much-loved home in Oak Lawn, a suburb of Chicago, and build a home in Orland Park, another Chicago suburb, that had room for the type of house they wanted to create that would accommodate everyone's needs. While they recognized the new subdivision as a place with larger lots and good floor plans, the marketing plan touted the affluence and prestige of the area. My poor aunt, trying to do right by her family, didn't want her motives to be misconstrued in any way, shape or form, by her friends, her family or her God. Her wealth had always been invested in her faith, and that's where she wanted to keep it.

My guess is that God doesn't particularly care how much money we accumulate over the years, but does care about how much richness we accumulate in our hearts over the course of our lifetimes. Jesus' words from Matthew's gospel aren't so much critical of those who pay attention to their finances, handling their money responsibly, as much as they are an opportunity to remember our priorities. Material wealth is a blessing born of the well-managed gifts of God's grace in our lives. If we begin to believe otherwise, somehow our hearts have shifted into believing we are running the show and have done everything in our lives on our own. Ken Jennings did achieve something extraordinary on Jeopardy, there is no denying that. But somehow the rich gifts he brought to that experience have become obscured in his attempt at humor at the expense of those who supported him in his efforts to reach his goal.

Bruce Hollywood and my Aunt Joanne seem to have gotten the balance right on this material riches versus the heart treasures that Jesus spoke of. I have no clue what my aunt's net financial worth was at the time of her death, or what Mr. Hollywood is worth on paper at this writing. But it is apparent to me who has been assisting them in amassing the great treasures in their hearts.

Author Bio:

As an ordained minister, Rev. Kemp has worked in both pastoral and educational ministries in several congregations. Her ministerial background and love of writing have combined to develop Creating Women Ministries, a website dedicated to encouraging theological dialogue, particularly among women, through workshops, journaling and personal spiritual development. Her book, You Don't see Many Chickens in Clearance: Essays on Faith and Living, can be purchased through Lulu Publishing at: www.lulu.com. Visit Creating Women Ministries at: www.creatingwomenministries.com for the e-book edition. Questions? Thoughts? Musings? She can be reached by email at: creatingwomen@irun.com.

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